Yes, people do indeed look at overweight women differently.

A few years ago I lost a lot of weight very quickly. People no longer recognized me and i was getting loads of attention for the first time in my life.

It made me sick.

I finally realized how shallow society is.

I realize that slow weight loss or gain wouldn't cause such a stir as one's own psyche would be able to adjust slowly to the change. But an overnight difference? Whoa. You can see the difference in how you're treated, and yes, its pretty disgusting.

It freaks me out to this day. I have had guys tell me that they wouldn't date me if I didn't look the way that I do. It does a number on my mind, I think that I am only wanted because I now look good.

Society is shallow, and its disgusting. If I could, I'd go back to the way things were, blissfully ignorant. Blah.