I forgot it.

Is it possible that if you want to put someone a mirrow in his/her face, you fail and what happen is the hurt done is bigger than the "help"?

Don't know if your questions is only for avoidants or is a question for the one you consider avoidants. This is the doubt I have now.

I guess it's not my opinion the one you want to have. I'm also very interested in knowing other people's opinion. That's the truth.

It's an interesting question: how do you want to be help? Sorry is I'm misleading your thread, but if you don't mind I could add it to the discussion.

I want to listen to criticisms by my own mind, by my loved people, by my therapist...here, I only need support.