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Originally Posted by IndestructibleGirl
but also it reminds me of a romantic break up in terms of feelings. And I saw so much of her vulnerability, due to her inability to keep her stuff out of my therapy, that sometimes I have dreadful feelings of devastation that I can't protect her, and look after her, knowing she's out in the world and somebody else gets to do that.. I don't think that is transference.
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Wow i would have said that is totally transference. Thats how i felt about my exes. And some of my ts. As a parentified child. But i really needed that for myself, someone to be in my corner.