Perhaps the ones who claim to care define caring differently than clients. Certainly therapists do not work to make what they do transparent - they do hide behind the smoke and mirrors thing and are quite wily as well as incredibly defensive and evasive when one tries to get a handle on what it is they actually do. I decided to change the game - the woman does not get to talk so she can't lie to me or manipulate me easily. I never looked for or wanted caring so whether they claim such a thing or not is of no matter to me.
It has never worked the way they claim for me, but I found a way to make them useful that I am willing to pay for. I am not saying it is the best value - but as a sort of hobby it is not as expensive as some.
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