Hey hun, weed is not physically addictive, but if one is to spin a reality of coping around the use of weed, it can be very psychologically addictive. We're a bunch of alcoholics but we've all done recovery a few times, so we know that it's just an illusion, basically a hard habit to break. Being that we don't exactly have great coping skills, or they're spread out into a crowd what little we have, addictions come to easy for us. Sad but true. May I suggest a voluntary outpatient program to get some counseling on addictions? It's worked wonders for me, because it got everyone involved.