everytime I'm in a long term relationship I tend to lose my sex drive I have no wants or urges and it's really hard on me and my b/f. So far I've been lucky that my current bf is patient and understanding and we've had schedules that don't work well for much time together. Its been almost 6 months since we were intimate. Usually the guy would have left me by now thinking I didn't love home because I become unaffectionate and don't want sex. When I'm single though I'm the opposite my sex drive goes through the roof. I don't want to lose my wonderful bf to this problem that has been with me for as long as I can remember.