I know a lot of people on here write about ET for their therapists, but how often in RL do you experience attraction to someone new? I suppose this is probably a more relevant question for those who are single. I so rarely find myself attracted to anyone, and I wished it happened more often. I probably come across someone I find attractive maybe once a year. Is that really low? I've talked about this topic in therapy, but my T doesn't really have any advice to offer. I don't suppose you can "make" yourself attracted to a wider variety of people, so I'm not sure that there is anything to "work on." Is this something anyone else has experienced or discussed in therapy? (Just for clarification, I don't have ET for my current therapist. I did for a previous T years ago, but never for current T).

ETA: I am referring to how often you feel attraction for people in RL (not Ts).