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In the very beginning I did think it was about the dinner and laundry. I put my story out there to get feedback from outsiders looking in. I had a feeling his problems were emotional, angry, blame (me), controlling (my job that I quit), and his job that he hates. Almost like a child (tantrum). The "Poor Me". I read everyone's comments and I have sat back and observed his actions. He told his mom, dad, and one friend that I made him feel "worthless". "Poor me". He cant accept any responsibilities. That is a big problem. Lack of communication. He stated it was his job but this week he hasn't complained once about the hated job. He has a lot of issues and I cant help him no more. He has to do it and the first thing he needs to do is get himself another job.
I took off for the weekend for a girls weekend. Nothing much just fun, dinner, laying on the beach, clearing my mind (my turn). I came back Sunday evening. I felt good, my mind was clear and I was happy. I didn't contact him. He sent me a message on Saturday stating he was doing chores around the house. I replied with great. I gave him space.
He cooked dinner and it was nice. I was working on the computer he asked for me to stand so he can hug and give me a kiss. The evening was good, we talked, and he asked a bunch of questions where I went, what did I do, etc....Again it was just a girls weekend (we all need it). During the time of us being together I had a girls night or weekend once every three to four months.
I have less that four weeks to finish my masters and like I said before I keep really busy with school, work, and coaching. He doesn't like that I'm not home at times but its my job and I'm not quitting. I didn't go to school all these years to be a housewife so I'm not changing it now or for him.
Im doing a lot better and am moving on. Like I said four weeks to go and I am done!! He can sit and point the finger at someone else.