Thanks for your response feralkittymom.

In my case, I have no history of sexual trauma and I have had long-term relationships. Currently, I've been single for a few years but I'm 30 now and at the stage in life where I would like to get married (to a woman) and have children. There just hasn't been anyone I am interested in. I gave it a shot and went on 3 dates with women who approached me this month, but I wasn't ultimately interested in any of them-- physically, emotionally, or otherwise. They were perfectly nice, I just didn't feel any attraction. In fact, I was crossing my fingers at the end of each date that they wouldn't try to hug/kiss/touch me in any way. My friends think that I'm "picky," but I would rather be single than date the wrong person. Been there, done that. I guess I just wish I found people I was attracted to more often, like my friends do. They go on dates, and tend to like the person afterwards. I tend not to. I WANT to like more of them-- I just don't.