I have not felt myself very sexually attracted to people in my life, even my husband. After a couple of months in therapy my therapy kind of opened up my emotions that I have probably kept a lid on all my life, it also kind of opened up sexual feelings. I never saw these as being directed to my T. My thought is that, for women especially, sexual feelings can be related to our emotions, so if we unconsciously close down our emotions, sexual feelings can be closed down too.