I've wondered this about myself too. Firstly, I AM married. But we have had our issues, and as the years passed, I've found I have no desire, definitely not attracted to him anymore (his hygiene has gone out the window), nor am I attracted to anyone else. Nor have I been. I have no desire for sex. I've talked to my T about all of this, and I've also told her in my dream world, I would be single, with a bunch of animals, maybe a same sex roommate or two.

My T does not believe me when I say I would be totally ok with never having sex again. I quit trying to justify myself.... but I'm just not a sexual being anymore...and could take it or leave it. She says I haven't met the right person. I told her I'd never go looking. As it is, hubby and I live together but apart. We don't share a bedroom. We also typically get along ok...

Wow...I can't believe I am saying all of this....but I have wondered myself if there's "something wrong with me," that I have no desire for sex. I DO have the desire for companionship, whether it be a partner (not likely) or friend(s). A friend of mine (also not in an ideal marriage) and I have joked about becoming roomies if we ever found ourselves single, because surprisingly, she feels the same way I do on everything. We would make great room mates. In fact, we have lived together.....she stayed with us for 6-8 months during a rough patch in her life.