I just want to +1 on the whole being married and lonely thing.

I don't suffer from loneliness, although I did as a teen.
I enjoy basic company - it's enough for me as far as human interaction goes.
I actually prefer to be alone most of the time. I especially prefer to sleep alone.

Attempting to force a relationship tends to yield nothing, and when it does it's dandy at first but ends up in the rubbish. I forced a relationship, and now I'm paying for it. I've learned that you should just let them happen.

You can't eliminate obsession, so you have to modify it. Change direction. I don't suffer from loneliness because I have Rock & Roll. She's my best friend, and always will be. When I'm sad, she knows what to play. When I'm angry, she's got the right tune. She's the perfect friend for me and she never complains. She stays forever beautiful. When a song gets boring, I can go to another one and it's OK. They don't get jealous, they let me be free. Follow your passion.