I've always believed in being honest, and combining that with the core belief that I'm worthless, well.... I tend to spill the beans quickly about all my baggage. I'd rather they know the worst of me and leave before I get attached. Of course, I also then tend to leave out all the positives.

Since officially getting a diagnosis, I've been in one relationship - and yes, I told him quite quickly:it wasn't an issue at all during the relationship. I've also just recently told someone I've been getting to know online from a dating site - I've known him for two weeks tops. His response was to tell me that he thinks he knows more people with bipolar than not, so he's fine. (What a huge relief!)

I just figure that I may as well tell them and explain my own behaviours and patterns. If they can't handle it, or at least aren't willing to try, I'd rather know right away.

I'm sorry that your ex did that to you