This! I have been single for the last 2 years, but for the last 10 years or more I have had no interest in sex, no desire for sex, I feel like I've lost the biological drive for sex. I fondly remember that I used to enjoy sex, seek it out, even initiate once in a while. At some point in my 30's I just lost that (I'm 41 now) and I can't say I miss it.

My T also says things like, "You'll meet the right man someday," or "you really need a social life," that make me roll my eyes. I'm really happy with my very complicated un-coupled-up life right now. I don't see a need to change that. If I become desperately lonely or suddenly find myself overcome with desire, then I will re-evaluate the situation.

It makes me sorta angry that T doesn't believe us!