[QUOTE=musinglizzy;4386766]Soup, can you elaborate? You tried to get some space, and T changed boundaries because of that? How so? QUOTE]

The notice period for not attending sessions changed from a couple of days to having to say in session the previous week if I couldn't attend and also a commitment to give a longer notice period if I wanted to quit.

In defence of my T, I had become a pain in the backside because of my trying to run and be on my own to process stuff (it happened a lot!) and my T had been patient. It wasn't a case of just saying I wanted a break to think things over, but it was about not wanting to face things and feeling overwhelmed. But I acknowledged that I either engaged fully and talked about these things with T or stopped going.