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Originally Posted by Bill3
This thought sounds very much like his unfounded idea that you are cheating on him.
He did not do what you asked about something very important to you. He did what you asked him not to do about something very important to you. He is jealous and irrational and angry about your contacts with other people.
What do you like about him?
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Bill, you bring up a good point. There are a lot of things I like about him. Namely, he was one of my best friends before we started dating. That friendship still exists in that I have such a good time with him. We have a lot in common and we understand each other for the most part. He is kind, caring, very generous, he is accepting of me and my limitations.
I have a pretty serious health condition and he is always there to help take care of me. Accepting help like that is hard for me because I have been on my own since 15 but he gives support and help without wanting anything in return.
He has sat up in the ER many nights only to have to go to work with no sleep. He tells me I am beautiful (and believes it) even when I am at my worst physically.
I can honestly say that he has helped keep me alive and in a somewhat hopeful state even when it seemed as though hope should be the last thing I feel.
I realize I may have painted a poor picture of who he is as a person because I am harping on some of the negative things...