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I think I can move on and leave her in the past but feel as though I need to address her with my bf to try and understand why he is/was unable to ask her to bow out and be respectful of me and our relationship.

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As long as you two are talking about her~ she's on his mind and her name will cross his lips. In her case~ your negative attention could be a positive.

In my opinion~She has nothing to do with how he treats you.