Thanks elsqueelio, Gabby2007, bipolar_bear, asylumgardens, and sabau2 for your words and advice. Well we decided not to go after all and I'm very glad I stuck with that decision. We were still pressured to go again today but we flat out said no this time. My mom and I took the opportunity today to spend time with each other (go shopping, have lunch, do some Father's Day shopping, etc.) and ended up having a great time. It's very hard for me to make decisions lately (let alone stand by them) so I do appreciate everyone's help and encouragement in doing what I feel is right.