I'd say I find someone I'm attracted to about once every 10 years. When I say attracted to it tends to combine emotional, chemical and physical. The emotional attraction can sometimes overpower the physical but I don't think I can say the reverse is true. I have to have emotional & chemical no matter what (chemical for me doesn't necessarily mean physical beauty, it's an aura that exists when you are near that person). I don't see my desires as an issue to be dealt with or changed. It's who I am.