I would definitely say that our conversations "blossom". I'll start the conversation with something I've been thinking about or one thing that happened and the rest of the hour flies by. At the end we've either ended up in a completely different place or we've expanded so much on the topic that I finally "get it". I don't always have a response to what she says unless it's a question but T gives me the time to think it over and process before pushing me further. She will also often ask me to expand on a thought so she understands it better or asks me to "paint her a picture" of what is going on for me in a certain situation. Only once has our conversation died out during session and I brought up something else that we talked about until the end. It takes a lot of pressure off of me to come up with a list of topic every week. Usually one thought/event/idea will do the trick.
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