I'm still having an issue with something that happened about 9 months ago between me and my T. I've brought it up but I never told her the extent to which it bothered me. She increased the boundaries when I admitted transference because she was afraid she wouldn't truly understand my texts and could respond in the wrong way. Intellectually, I get it. But, I went from feeling special since she only texted a few clients to feeling like I did something wrong - admit feelings and you'll be punished.