(((((Freewill)))))
I have a sister-in-law that is just the same way. It's maddening and I, unfortunately, needed to surround myself with lots of giant cotton balls because after trying and trying, I could never find companionship. It seemed she thrives upon being right all the time, having the "best" of any situation, or the "worse". She twisted words around to suit her needs. I don't think she even realizes she does it. And bringing it to her attention - you guessed it, she turned it back around on me. Just a dysfunctional person and dysfunctional relationship.
This was my experience and it may not turn out the same way for you. Just know that you are not alone and you need to decide what is right for you. Whatever that is, it is okay because relationships are about comfortable companionship.
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 "It is good to have an end to journey toward, but it is the journey that matters in the end.
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