I have less than four weeks to finish school. In the meantime I have put my name on a couple of apartments. I'm hoping they come through in four to six weeks.
I can say I have worked on the marriage. He still refuses to discuss anything. I think he knows in his heart that he was in the wrong but wont say it.
When we discussed the house. YES, he did say he was in the wrong for doing that. In CA when a spouse makes a purchase, if something happens then the house would be community property. In my case I signed it back to him. Now the interest that accrues from the time of purchase will get split 50/50. Which wont be much. Th boat was bough used and paid for. No debt there.
When I confronted him he was shocked. He had no idea that I found out. As of now the house is still only in his name. IF I continue to stay then one requirement will have to have my name put back on. If not then there is no need to stay. As of now I am apartment hunting and there will have to be drastic changes to make me want to stay. The house being one.
I can stand on my own two feet. I made it through the worst of couch hopping with my one bag, lack of communication, no access to funds, etc... That to me was an emotional roller coaster. It has made me stronger and it sure opened my eyes. I thought that the one person you can always trust would be your husband. I was wrong and I hate knowing that I let myself down. I trusted in the wrong person. So, I need to keep standing, continue to live each day and not look back.