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Originally Posted by Rose76
This isn't a contest. We're not voting on who's right and who's wrong. You say, "it's HIM." like that is some sort of a win for you. Wrong! You married him. You are in a hugely dysfunctional marriage. That's a problem for YOU.
Personally, I don't buy that this guy was just fine for 6 years, then changed a couple of months ago. This guy has big-deal issues that got past your radar. Something's wrong with your radar.
Okay, so now you are seeing him a bit clearer. About time!
Of all the guys you've dated, you picked him out to marry. Once you met this man, you said, "That's the husband for me!" Do some thinking about why you did that. Not that you have to tell us. But you've got a problem and need to figure it out.
Show me a grossly dysfunctional marriage - which is what you've got - and I'll show you two people with issues. I don't know what yours are, but you need to know what they are. Getting into some therapy might not be a bad idea for you.
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She says they've been together 6 years which means when they got together she was 18. I suspect there was no boyfriends prior to this one, how many could you have at 18?
I agree about therapy.
I overall notice many unusual things that might indicate lack of understanding what's important. Like every single post emphasizes who cooked what like first how many nights he cooked or she cooked and now he cooks more dinners when she not home etc why is it even of importance?
Two young people are so preoccupied with food. It is almost like focusing on minor things takes attention from what is really wrong with all this.
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