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Originally Posted by clairelisbeth
I think it would be more helpful to explore these feelings with him. It's understandable that you have a lot coming up, with him leavingit . Do you think your wanting to avoid the session is protective?
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It is totally a protective instinct. As is the inability to communicate, share feelings, show emotion etc.
It feels like I will be hurt all over again, like I am being. Like I am having something bad done to me that I dont want.......and I have absolutely no control over and cant stop it happening. By not going, not communicating I will be taking some control back.......and not a single thing abiut that makes sense!