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Originally Posted by divine1966
She says they've been together 6 years which means when they got together she was 18. I suspect there was no boyfriends prior to this one, how many could you have at 18?
I agree about therapy.
I overall notice many unusual things that might indicate lack of understanding what's important. Like every single post emphasizes who cooked what like first how many nights he cooked or she cooked and now he cooks more dinners when she not home etc why is it even of importance?
Two young people are so preoccupied with food. It is almost like focusing on minor things takes attention from what is really wrong with all this.
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Through the relationship we both cooked. Because he has stated that I should be the only one cooking I mentioned that he has done it while I was gone to work. I was proving a point that he does do it. As he keeps using that as an excuse I simply made a statement. No. It's not a contest and I don't expect anyone to pick sides. I never once said I was preoccupied with the petty stuff. I have not been at all petty because if I was none of this would of happened. I'm not angry because he didn't do this or he didn't do that.
I simply stated that he does cook. That's it! To prove that his excuse wasnt as good as he thought it was. I didn't give up. I'm still here. I have been trying to work on this marriage. I do have for weeks left for school and I am taking it one day at a time and see what happens.
No arranged marriage. My parents didn't worry me off.
You are fully correct that the things he complained about are petty. But that is the honest truth and came from his mouth.