Hallie, you sound like you have some mature attitudes to meeting people. The T may not be suggesting you date but may be probing to see what might stand in the way. That is what Ts do, free us up enough so we can be living our lives.

I have made friends here on PC and that has made a difference. Don't undervalue the friends you have on PC. They count. And you count too. Each of us has a gift inside waiting to be uncovered. Unfortunately abuse is something that covers over our gifts. By facing it the covers drop away and then we start being more of who we really are.

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