Sweetie, the way your original post was written didn't portray any of what you have just written. I got a completely different view of what was going on. I am extremely sorry that this is happening to you.

I know so much what it feels like to feel you can't be without someone. When I read your second post I could see so much more clearly what is going on. And him blocking you out, not giving answers, acting like this is out of the blue, is making him in the wrong. I wasn't aware this was the case in my previous post.

None of his behavior is your fault. None at all and he should be talking and giving answers and support to try and fix this. It sounds to me that you've been the one keeping the boat steady, trying to communicate, and work things out.

Now that makes him the one giving it up, he's the one not fighting, he's the one that will one day regret this.

When I read your original post I got a picture of a pretty decent guy that randomly tells you he isn't sure of his emotions. You got up and left, he calls to work things out. You try but he says he doesn't think he makes you happy then you leave again and he says it's over. Then you kinda saying... Well I'm not going to put on a show to prove I love him.

Obviously, after your second post, this is not the case and I apologize for the confusion. I hope you can work through this! Please stay strong!!