Seeyalater, whenever someone posts something that tells you what you need to see, you don't respond.

Your husband keeps blaming YOU for anything that is unpleasant in his life.
Do you want to live that way for the rest of your life? If it rains and he can't go out in his boat, get ready because THAT IS GOING TO BE YOUR FAULT TOO. Wow, that is a horrible way to live one's life. He wont even go see a therapist FOR HIMSELF, and guess what THAT IS YOUR FAULT TOO.