Honestly I would file for divorce BEFORE your graduation & definitely before you get a job because if you don't & he does quit his job then you will be paying him alimony from YOUR INCOME you get from your job after graduation.....is that what you really want.


Ah, maybe that's what you are sticking around for?


I remember one of the last comments that my H made to me before I finally kicked him out of my life.....he said that he thought that "I WOULD TOLERATE HIM FOR THE REST OF OUR LIVES"....maybe your H thinks that of you especially if he thinks that you will be supporting him.....& no, they don't have to be nice when they think that.....they are married & don't think you really will go anywhere & they can have the best of all worlds....going away every weekend to the lake & leaving you to deal with it.....


YOU ARE ALWAYS being the one to DEAL with it & in reality...he's not dealing with anything.


Get out while you are FREE & while there is nothing they can take away from you in the divorce.....foolish to stick around to see what he does????? What in the world are you thinking????