I've actually never had casual sex. I think it could work for some people. For me, I want sex only after we're very close. Maybe I'm just uptight I don't know. I'm definitely picky! I've actually only ever had 4 lovers. In my life! And I'm 36.... Those were all serious relationships.
I guess that makes me the biggest prude on this board. :P But I did things mostly the way I wanted to. There was only one guy whom I regret NOT sleeping with....
Sidony