My negative transference is generally about my fear of my T or pdoc leaving me. Sometimes, I think they don’t read the letters I give them or they don’t pay attention enough or they just don’t care. I think that they would rather be with another patient. Then I feel like they are not saying the right things and such. So, I have to take inventory of where the feelings are coming from. My insecurities generally are the root cause. If I honestly look at it—its not my T or pdoc who has changed—its me. I don’t know this is the case with you—its just what happens to me.

I hope you can work through this. have you tried to talk with your T about it?