Perhaps, but that's another two years. I feel like the pattern might be too well established to be changed easily by that point. I still feel like it'll get better someday. We have too much chemistry for sex to never "work". Why do you think it will never end in your case?

I've read that it's supposed to help to only engage in intimate touching and not sex/sexual touching. Basically touching without the intent of an orgasm and slowly work one's way up to that point again. It's supposed to help with erection problems and premature ejaculation due to anxiety and possibly anorgasmia due to anxiety. Has anyone tried a method like this? I've tried with my partner but we both have such high sex drives and chemistry that not having sex is very challenging.

A link to the method I was looking at:
http://counselling-matters.org.uk/si...nsateFocus.pdf