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Originally Posted by Quidel
I say I'm stuck with it as is because he's too damn old to care anymore. He wasted his youthful sex drive with porn and his own hand, in private, while I went mad! He's almost 50 and burnt himself out. I just hit the age where I'm a cat in heat laying next to a zombie  ugh |
Hmmm…I have no idea what to say for that age range. I'm still at a younger age so I have to assume the issues I have are because of anxiety. I just don't know what to do about it. I have to take care of myself because I can't get anywhere with him most of the time and I end up watching a lot of porn myself (I watch a LOT before I met him). I can occasionally get off in a reasonable amount of time without porn, but I don't want to waste an hour or two if I can get away with it. And a vibrator usually makes it take much longer for me.