Thanks, guys, what you both said weas pretty much very true, I'm kinda relieved but still worried today as he has been to the doctor and has been told he's got a lung infection so he has antibiotics for that, but he had to have a blood test for glandular fever or malaria I kept telling him he should've got his jabs before we went away. and he has been referred to the hospital for his back...i think he may have to have an operation I don't know why i'm so stressed about this because i dont know anything for sure, but i know that if all this does go ahead that i might freak out.
I gave in last night but i only just cut a little and so i won't need to tell him.

Sorry to moan and write huge longs posts...i just need to let it out abit.

Claire x