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Old Apr 11, 2015, 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted by Sky101 View Post
It's not healthy how bad our fights get when your manic and it's not fair to presley. I can tell you that I am done fighting with you. So if it starts again I'm gonna pack my bags and go.

This is what he told me.. I've been having the worst feeling lately of uneasiness and Anexity and like something bad is gonna happen and my husband finally the told me he would leave if it happens again I told him I would stay on my zoolfot but the zoolfot doesn't help fully to the extent o will sometimes be depressed or manic as well yeah it helps some but it doesn't get rid of my bipolar I will still have episodes and stuff I Told my husband things will get better I'll stay on zolfot and stuff Its sad I can't make any real promises bc I'm bipolar you know idk when it's gonna happen indont choice that I don't went to argue who would want to be with a bipolar and when I am manic he makes sure to trigger it more to a worse point and it becomes way way out of control so idk guys I'm sad... But he's right we can't argue around baby and when I am in a bad mood he follows me like when I'm manic he eggs it on worse till I explode on him! I tried to tell him to leave me alone when I'm manic and he follows me to the store like he doesn't get it to leave me alone or well argue
It is very hard to live with a trigger! Especially when they know they're doing it. To me it's the equivalent of someone who makes allot of noise and talks loud and blares the radio when they KNOW you have a bad headache! It sounds like he helps create the storm, then gets mad because it's raining. If he really wants to stop the fighting, and the episodes, then he needs to stop intentionally triggering you! I've been in your shoes and know what that's like. We can't always effectively control our chemical imbalances, but those who trigger is CAN control their insensitive behavior towards us if they want to, and try. It seems as though you're doing all you can to control your part, he needs to do HIS part! I hope everything works out for you!
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