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Originally Posted by JustShakey
Eta: I actually think it's a good idea to hold back in the T relationship. I mean, you wouldn't go headfirst into any other relationship in the same way that many people seem to want to do with Ts. Over time the feelings will come out, but you risk overwhelming the relationship if you try to let it all out at once. It's the same principle as breaking the bed springs by jumping all crazy on the bed.
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Isn't it the T's job to handle your feelings, even if they are overwhelming? And isn't the point of therapy that you are not required to manage your feelings in the same way as a real relationship?
I see your point, just not sure what is appropriate in the T relationship, since it is like no other.
With my original post this I was thinking more of the case where clients hold back their feelings for months or even years, out of fear.