GEZZZZZZ...I got tired just reading about the day you had. Those days do happen...when they happen to me, I unplug everything T.V. , phone, etc and give myself half an hour to calm and then I get myself outside with the weather and the ground and the sky...grounding myself. I walk away from all the people who keep pushing their problems on to me, and play music that I like and if I have to work, I keep people at a distance unless they are respectful...I am sorry to say this but if I was you I would tell that bf to "bite me" and show him the door...you may see it differently but that kind of behavior is controlling and belittling and you are better off without it under any circumstance. Life is short enough as it is without having it shortened by the stress caused by idiots. (Sorry if you are happier with him now and I called him an idiot, but if he is so stressed about his job and bills, he should change it or pay it himself and not lace your relationship with the poison of lack of self disipline.) People never cease to amaze me with how inconsiderate and uncaring they can be...as for family members who are that...you have your choices to make there...for me there's a reason why I choose not to have some family members involved with my life...you know...it is an option - you are not required to talk to people who don't respect you, why should you respect them if they don't respect you.
I am glad that you are laughing again...but while you are laughing have a quick look at your situation, because people who dump on you once will try to do it again...It's a fact of life.
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