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Old Apr 11, 2015, 10:17 PM
musinglizzy musinglizzy is offline
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I voted sometimes. There have been a few times where she was completely wrong in something she thought, but there have been way more times where she's hit the nail on the head, saying things I didn't even realize until she did. An "ah ha" moment. Of course she can't know everything, and there are some things...she'd never even guess, and would probably be quite surprised about. Some things I'm just not ready to talk about. Of course, the other way around, there have been things I've said in therapy, where I answered my own questions. I just knew what she'd say. Do I know her better than she knows herself? Not by a longshot. But, I've just been with her long enough to know what she'd say. She surprised me my very first session....telling me I was feeling a way I was sure I wasn't feeling. Well, I kept that in the back of my mind....enough to pay more attention to myself... and sure enough, I recognized it. I'd been that way for YEARS...and never knew it consciously. But first meeting with her, and she pegged it. There have been other things too. Mostly though, things I DID know and agree with, that I just didn't talk about until it stared us straight in the eyes basically.
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