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Old Apr 11, 2015, 10:48 PM
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Originally Posted by misskeena View Post
No offense, and I know you mean well, but I don't feel like telling me I'm in good company with failed relationships is helpful. In my case, I don't want to be in that boat. I don't want to be in that company.

I'm not shy, actually. I talk to him plenty, and am pretty open with him otherwise. These types of issues aren't about shyness for me or for him (because he isn't a shy person, either). I'm not going to ask him for coffee, period. It's not gonna happen, and I'm not looking to be talked into doing so. But I am saying that here are where some of my issues stem from.

Sorry just trying to help. You sounded down I thought to give you some ideas. Oh nobody wants to be in that boat, but many of us are, question is what do we do to get out of the boat. I didn't mean you are shy I just thought if you tell him that it sounded more neutral than saying "low self esteem", I thought you can explain true issue later, not in original note. I see now that you won't ask him out so scratch that . Good luck with whatever you decide.

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