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Originally Posted by misskeena
Sorry...I didn't mean to be snappy, I just feel like such a loser. This is not a good situation for me but I mean, it never is so what's the difference? I am always getting too wound up, too attached, pushing away, anxious, overwhelmed. A basket case, in other words.
I just want to have a normal time where I go out for coffee with a guy and get to know him peacefully without all of this effed up mess in my head.
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Oh no problem. I teach high school so
am not easily offended.
Well when you discover how to get to know someone peacefully and no effed up crap basket case you let me know. I'd like to learn how to. At 49 I still don't have a clue.
My motto is not to give up. I think even my t thinks I am nuts that i keep trying. She also says we need to approach relationship as business negotiations with no emotions involved until you know he is right. Also keep yourself less available. Gee how do you do that????
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