I've talked to T extensively about my attachment to a few other people in my life and how I don't want to be attached to them. The way I attach myself is unhealthy and it generally leads to disappointment so I want to avoid it if possible. I'm okay attaching to T right now because I trust that she isn't going to leave me but, at some point, the relationship is going to have to end and if I'm attached, it's going to hurt, a lot.

I worry about this a lot so I feel like it is worth talking about. I'm just nervous to bring it up because I don't know what her response will be.