I don't understand your response - please clarify. If you are saying that you agree with the way this has played out and that you have no problem with what I have gone thru here - I take serious issue with that.

What do you mean you have "been in it" for 44 years. What is the "it" you refer to? Is "it" a hospital, or might "it" be a reference to your being in counseling or as a counselor for 44 years, please clarify - this thread is very important to me and don't want to leave the wrong understanding in perpetuity.

I hope I am wrong and that you were not attempting to blow off what happened to me. Please clarify as to whom you respond, the issues involved, etc. Right now I cannot understand what you were meaning to convey. And like I said, this discussion revolves around something in my life that has been rife with potential misunderstandings and so I don't want the discussion to be misunderstood either.

Thank you for clarifying please.