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Originally Posted by ChipperMonkey
You don't want to be in the same boat as others who have failed relationships?
No offense, but this is an INCREDIBLY unrealistic way to look at things. And to be honest, if you count the guy who ditched you at church, you do indeed have a failed relationship of sorts. It seems like you're being a bit judgmental and at the same time putting obstacles in your own way to finding true love. Rare is the case of someone who goes out and hits a home run on their first at bat. You need to practice. Relationship stuff doesn't come naturally to most of us.
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She did come across judgmental but she later apologized plus I didn't take it personal, she isn't in a good place and we all know how that feels. Miskeena shared she did in fact had failed dysfunctional relationships I think two and they both ended in a very devastating way, so she is in the same boat.
I actually only had two major long term relationships myself one was my marriage and the other 9 years living together. I had some short experiences in between but not much to write home about. I did and do date but am not finding the right one.
But I guess we can't give up. If I feel someone might be interesting to know ( like the hairdresser) I go for it and if he is wrong I leave when I figure it (sometimes takes 2 weeks but sometimes many years go figure)
. Sure it is devastating at times as I hate running and break ups but what are other options? Not take chances? Life is short!
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