My T and I are discussing this again now. Quite frankly, I am confused by this whole deal. I know how I feel. I feel some bonding or attachment for her. She seems to encourage it. Last week I mentioned something about our bond maybe increasing over time...(not meaning anything bad or counter therapeutic)...and she seemed to discourage this idea.
I have emailed her asking if she feels attachments are bad....and what did she mean?

Months and months ago, PreviousT said this: "Your attachment will grow…and you and she will negotiate the direction of growth…that is what attachments are…"

So, yes, I am with you ....confused.