Hi Fuzzy,
Wow that question really has me thinking. Seems the longer I think of an answer for me, the more my mind goes and goes.
I would say for me it would be difficult to have a yes or no on any level of love in my life. I feel that there are different types of love. Like the love of a family member, or love of a pet and the romatic type of love. So I guess the answer for me

would have to be that for the most part I feel love to be a natural thing. Though there is a member of my family who has been around for 17 years, and as much as I would really feel I love him, I honestly can not command myself to love him. (I have tried to do so)
I have had romantic feelings of love that I could not command to leave, so I guess to me it is not really a choice.