Yes he eggs it on till it gets totally out of control its like he doesn't even try to understand my illness I even bought three books on it for us to read together so he knows what to do and not do and etc and try to understand what I am going through he thinks just being on zoolfot will help me I just wanna cry I think he is too he scares me and is mean to me and makes my bipolar so much worse and is unsupportive and controlling