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Originally Posted by tinyrabbit
I think the ability to experience your T caring can often be disrupted by feelings from other relationships that you transfer in. My T said that if I didn't have all this stuff to deal with I would be able to simply see him as someone who cares about me. The fact I struggle to do this is to do with other relationships, not him.
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My T. said my maternal transference gets in the way and blocks me from seeing her as caring since my mom wasn't caring. She did some reverse psychology on me which helped (I hated to admit) but it doesn't always stick. It sucks. It's almost like I can't recognize what she's doing that's caring? I can in other people, just not her - the one person I want it from the most.
