thanks for the quick reply but as an addendum and a few more questions...

what do i tell her?
when we had our conversation she said she wanted to really be single and i should tell her if im with any other girls
i obviously said she should tell me if shes with other guys as well...so we both agreed on that

now she may or may not be holding up on her end, but what do i say...do i just ask her? or should i just play the game like she is...to be honest im a very conscientious person and playing a game just isn't me and somewhat believing in karma/maybe a god that would be damn sure to bite me in the *** and hard.

also i havent been with many girls before and the whole prospect of trying to find a girl who actually likes me too seems somewhat staggeringly difficult and even if i do confront her about it, it is gonna take me awhile to get over the whole thing...yeah i'm probably overly emotional for a guy but i am what i am.