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Originally Posted by Bill3
Well to me it was clearly a wrong thing to do and it was harmful to you. I think that is true whether or not we call it abuse. In my mind, avoiding that specific label would not change the fact that what she did was wrong and harmful to you.
What would be the effect on you if you knew for sure that it was, or was not, abuse?
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I'm not sure what the effect would be ? Hmm ... I guess I've kept it to myself for so long and never looked at and analysed it clearly before, so I'm trying to make sense of it. I guess I'd know what to call it and how to examine it. Until I posted I wasn't even sure any other person would see it as inappropriate or wrong or abusive - I just uncomfortably sat with what I knew happened without any context or framework for it.
I guess I'm interested in what others make if it to help me make sense of it.